Who's Cheating Who?
What's in this book?
Part 1 –Cheating 101
1- Cheating-What it is and Isn’t
2- Profile of a Cheater
3- Choosing to Cheat
4- The Discovery
Part 2 – After the Fact
5- Fixing What’s Broken
6- Why We Stay in Bad Relationships
7- When Love and Dreams Die
8- Saying Goodbye
Part 3 – Prevention & Cure
9- Communication 101
10- How Ready Are You For a Commitment?
11- Relationship Success by Design
12- Are You at Risk?
About the author
|Who's Cheating Who?
Approximately 1.5 million websites and over 1000 book titles are dedicated to the subject
of cheating. The focus is most always on proving the infidelity, catching the scoundrel in the
act and dealing with the pain and shame of being a victim. A close analysis however,
creates uncertainty regarding exactly where our compassion and sympathies should lie. We
are forced to question our concepts of relationships and the realities of our role as a
partner. Untangling the complexities to find the truth, provokes a host of questions with
many complicated answers.
Cheating is not as simple as one individual in a relationship behaving badly, and the other
being wronged. It is a multi-faceted, complex reaction stemming from many different places
within the human psyche. Cheating involves two people making well-informed decisions
and choices. It relates to compatibility, needs and the realities of human nature. A lack of
attention to those vital relationship components provokes reactionary behaviors as a matter
of course. The need to cheat is a consequence, which is facilitated by a serious lack of